SMH!

There is nothing I hate more than dependent women!

Wheather you are dependent on your boyfriend or your friends it doesnt matter, being dependent on someone else is ridiclous especially if you are in college.

FOR EXAMPLE

There is this girl I know, "around the way", and she lives with her boyfriend at HIS house, he pays for alll her meals, pays for her weave, pays for her nails and even finds rides for her when she needs it...SMH! And mind you she has NO JOB!

Yes the guy is dumb for continuing to pay for all this stuff for her, but i dont understand how any female could happily be dependent on a dude that's not even your husband.....mmmmmmm

Anddd....

There is this other girl who goes to her friends house soleyyy to eat, she dont ever chill and talk to her any other time, but when the cabinets are full she is surely there...why cant homegirl go get a job and go to Giant or Mars, and get her OWN food!


I guess you can say I let other people situations bother me, but I think its the lack of independent woman who can not hold there own in this world, that really bother me...SMH

I dont know if you ladies have to step your money up, if you have to step your class up or if you have to step your LIFE up in general...i dont knowwww but whatever it is get it together!

-Gramz!

"Before he cheats"

Its funny how EVERY black woman loves this song!

Papers

I have loved Usher since "My Way" and I continued being a fan throughout his career even when "Here I Stand" was a flop album. And now with his 6th studio album coming soon, I anticipated what his first single would be, because in the past we have all been use to great hits like "Yeah" "Love in this club" and "You remind me," so of course I was anticipating something totally different than what he came out with.
I was riding in my car one day and heard this song and I thought it was some kind of joke, but come to find out, Usher was dead serious. He put Tameka on BLAST! And this would be almostttt acceptable if he didnt have two children. Now his sons have to grow up hearing a diss record their father made for their mother, and no child should be subject to such circumstances. If Usher truly had a desire to make this song, keep it on the album, dont make it your first single...

Lyrics:

I can't, get to work on time, can't believe the words to her I just said
But who the hell argue n fight like dogs at 6 in the morning?(in the mornin)
I know it's gonna' be some more sh** tonight mm oooh
Our pastor's callin, tellin me I done went too far in
I'm seen around town and my friends can't recognize me,
'Cuz I took a chance on love(love), it's like(like), I'm dyin(ooh dyin)


For you I gave my heart and turned my back against the world
'Cause you were my girl, girl, girl
I done damn near lost my mama, I done been through so much drama
I done turned into the man that I never thought I'd be.

I'm ready to sign them papers, papers, papers
I done took all I can take but u leave me no options girl
I can't deny how much I love you, I done gave up errthing I had to
As hard as it is I'm affraid I gotta say
I'm ready to sign them papers, papers, papers
I done took all I can take but u leave me no options girl


But one thing I can not deny is that Usher sounds great on the track...

I guess it's home-wrecking season...

Two hollywood celebrities I have been admiring for years now would be actress Gabrielle Union and actress/singer Alicia Keys. And in the past few months I have heard rumors of them stealing men that dont belong to them. And of course I am not one to believe just anything on mediatakeout, so I did my own research, and I came across statements from Dwyane Wade's exwife and Swizz Beats exwife. And I applaude them both ladies for acting very womenly....even though dwayne wade's wife went in on Gabrielle Union a little (giggle giggle), but I would too lol.

Follow links below

Swizz Beats Ex-Wife statement:
http://smokingsection.uproxx.com/TSS/2009/09/mashonda-addresses-alicia-keys-via-twitter

Dwayne Wade Ex-Wife statement:
http://www.examiner.com/x-964-LA-Celebrity-Gossip-Examiner~y2009m5d20-Hollywood-Hottie-Gabrielle-Union-A-homewrecker


Who would ever think Alicia Keys and Gabrielle Union were some homewrecking freaks......and Gabrielle Union and Ludacris having sex equals the surprise of the century lol

But the question I have now can a homewrecker be a role model, because Alicia Keys does so much community service, all her music is positive and amazing, and she carries herself very lady like....now what must I think about her????

Defying Gravity!

My showchoir life has come back in the form of the TV Show hit Glee. Today's episode Kurt and Rachel compete for the solo in my favorite musical theatre song EVER, "Defying Gravity," from the musical Wicked. That song still gives me chills! And both Kurt and Rachel did an amazing job......and yay Kurt for hitting that high F! Ohhhh and Lea Michele is a young Idina Menzel, she is ABSOLUTELY AMAZINGGGG!!!

JUST READ THE LYRICS! good stuffff!!!

Something has changed within me
Something is not the same
I'm through with playing by the rules
Of someone else's game
Too late for second-guessing
Too late to go back to sleep
It's time to trust my instincts
Close my eyes: and leap!

It's time to try
Defying gravity
I think I'll try
Defying gravity
Kiss me goodbye
I am defying gravity
And you wont bring me down!

I'm through accepting limits
''cause someone says they're so
Some things I cannot change
But till I try, I'll never know!
Too long I've been afraid of
Losing love I guess I've lost
Well, if that's love
It comes at much too high a cost!

I'd sooner buy
Defying gravity
Kiss me goodbye
I'm defying gravity
I think I'll try
Defying gravity
And you wont bring me down!

"Help Somebody"

There's a moving inner peace that I love to see
Gotta raise my soul to tell you how I feel
Gotta listen to the tears that people cry for me
In a world that's so wild fear creeps'
Cause when I get up to hear you tears just fill my eyes
Now I know I got to let the selfishness subside
Tell 'em y'all
Help somebody, help somebody
Show them what it is, give a little bit more
Help somebody, help somebody
Show them what it is, let 'em know
If you see the future ask it if I'm there
Ask it if I'm there
Ask it to tell you did I ever make a stand
Ask if you may care to mention, did I learn from everything?
And even if it takes a sea of eternity to know
I'll wait a century, a buried mess of bones, help me
Help me to give myself the way that you've given you
Help me to be the helping hand that makes a dream come true
Choir sing!
Help somebody, help somebody
Show them what it is, give a little bit more
Help somebody, help somebody
Show them what it is, let 'em know
If I'm there, tell me if I'm there
Do you see me there?...Help somebody, help somebody
Show them what it is, give a little bit more
Help somebody, help somebody
Show them what it is, let 'em know